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WhateverWorks · 36-40
It doesn’t intimidate me, but long-term I want functional interdependent collaboration, not two independent people mostly living parallel. Younger me would get insecure/distressed by the unevenness. Older me wishes I could go back in time to reassure myself that there are lots of people out there who want what I wanted out of life and a connection without having to settle.