The only match I've had in months on any dating app is a dude into cross-dressing

I read some of your posts.
I think I would concentrate on YOU right now.
Attend to your depression, become a whole person.
Then, maybe a girlfriend.

I don't think dating apps are the way to go..full of grizzled veterans or the super shy..and the pressure to date..its not a natural ways btw how'd the dude get in there?

Lmao you're a meme dude.
Hit the gym and work on yourself honestly.

If you can't beat them 💃 join them

Lose weight, workout

Well, you're getting closer.