My boyfriend turned out to be a metal head completely obsessed with these bands
I am 43 year old recently divorced woman. I have a son.
I moved here in this small predominantly white town about a year ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. About 10 months ago i started dating this 47 year old divorced guy. He is white. He lives with his two teenage daughters. He wears flannels and work jeans. He has guns. I hate all of it. I hate the flannels on him, I hate having a gun around, and I hate the rustic camping he loves. But he is great in bed. Me and my bf are almost the same height. He's maybe a 0.5"-1" taller then me. Makes everything just so convenient. Matched sizes work great for sex, hugging, kissing and play wrestling. On high heels i am taller than him. He loves it . He loves Heavy Metal. He is blasting Metallica, Pantera, Skid Row, Motley Crue, Megadeth. He is always headbanging. I love R n B music. Now that I think about it he was buttering me up to metal from the start, like he'd put down hints he likes it and I'd occasionally see him listening to it, then he'd talk to me about it more often and the great bands and have me listen to some stuff
His mancave is just filled with Metallica, Pantera, Megadeth, Skid Row, Motley Crue, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, Warrant, Winger, W.A.S.P Poison , Alice Cooper G n R, Aerosmith, like the walls are covered in posters, there's boxes of CDs, he has an electric guitar on the wall. It hit me like a god damn. It is like a shrine dedicated to these bands, honestly I was a bit freaked out but I tried to ignore it.
But I swear it's like the only thing he thinks about when he has free time, he always has heavy metal playing on a speaker, he's always singing (loudly) to some CD, he's constantly telling me about the history of some song or it's meanings. Granted I like him but it's driving me insane!
Please advise, I'm just so awestruck I don't even know how I'm supposed to react. He is a 47 year old man for Christ's sake!
I moved here in this small predominantly white town about a year ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. About 10 months ago i started dating this 47 year old divorced guy. He is white. He lives with his two teenage daughters. He wears flannels and work jeans. He has guns. I hate all of it. I hate the flannels on him, I hate having a gun around, and I hate the rustic camping he loves. But he is great in bed. Me and my bf are almost the same height. He's maybe a 0.5"-1" taller then me. Makes everything just so convenient. Matched sizes work great for sex, hugging, kissing and play wrestling. On high heels i am taller than him. He loves it . He loves Heavy Metal. He is blasting Metallica, Pantera, Skid Row, Motley Crue, Megadeth. He is always headbanging. I love R n B music. Now that I think about it he was buttering me up to metal from the start, like he'd put down hints he likes it and I'd occasionally see him listening to it, then he'd talk to me about it more often and the great bands and have me listen to some stuff
His mancave is just filled with Metallica, Pantera, Megadeth, Skid Row, Motley Crue, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, Warrant, Winger, W.A.S.P Poison , Alice Cooper G n R, Aerosmith, like the walls are covered in posters, there's boxes of CDs, he has an electric guitar on the wall. It hit me like a god damn. It is like a shrine dedicated to these bands, honestly I was a bit freaked out but I tried to ignore it.
But I swear it's like the only thing he thinks about when he has free time, he always has heavy metal playing on a speaker, he's always singing (loudly) to some CD, he's constantly telling me about the history of some song or it's meanings. Granted I like him but it's driving me insane!
Please advise, I'm just so awestruck I don't even know how I'm supposed to react. He is a 47 year old man for Christ's sake!
