Great advice from this man he's very aggressive about it though 😂😂

@Mamapolo2016 he's something else, but he's right..

@AbsolutelyFabulous I respectfully disagree. His very posture and speech say he’s always first. If one is self-confident, shouting and haranguing is unnecessary. It’s just another take on “me me me.”

He may be well-loved in his bathroom mirror.

What I’ve learned is, while the quiet ones are not usually the focus of a room, they’re the ones who don’t yak yak yak their self-validation. They just live it.

I often think about a wildlife video I can no longer find. A chimpanzee troop’s alpha died and three young adult males were competing to replace him. One of the three was significantly smaller. As the “Alpha Dance” competition began, two of the three postured aggressively, tearing up vegetation, screaming.

The third, the little one, disappeared into the forest and minutes later returned with two rusty gas cans. Ignoring the two performers, he rolled the gas cans around the clearing, banging them together and creating a terrific racket.

Guess which candidate won? Gas can guy.

The ending of the video really got to me. After all the noise and fright, the rest of the troop were agitated and scared. ALL THREE of the contestants moved through the crowd, calming and grooming the rest.

Then they all went back to being chimpanzees.

@DancingStarGoddess I agree with you, I have seen him a few times and he is alway doing that

@AbsolutelyFabulous it's so odd lol