What would you do ... ? If you found out your best friend's "child" is gay and they were afraid...

SW-User

I'd stay out of it.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

If she's shutting the conversation down, there's a high chance she already knows but is refusing to acknowledge it

SW-User

I wouldn't do anything but support them. It's not my place to do anything more than that. Don't out people.

AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F

She knows already but doesn't want to know.

I'd stay well out of it if I was you.

Steve42 · 56-60, M

It is none of my business. I'd be ready for it when they find out though.

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

I'd befriend the child, that's pretty much the only thing you can do

Carissimi · F

You know she doesn’t want to accept it, yet you goad her with, “maybe he doesn’t want kids.” Leave her be. She probably has dreams of marriage and grand babies from him, and it’s very hard to lose long held dreams for our children. Just be a good friend, and be there for her, if she needs you. Other than this, stay out of it.

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

My friends only son came out as Gay and all is well. I think she was a bit upset at first but she came around and supports him. The dad was very conservative so I'm not sure how that went over. The dad died several years later.

craig7 · 70-79, M

She's probably worked it out - but doesn't want to know,perhaps is in denial. Stay well out of it,don't risk jeopardising your good friendship with her.

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