tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
that is messed up..so sorry
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tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
@Myocite good stay strong
Myocite · F
@tomtracy438 I am. I'm just very spent.
tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
@Myocite i am sure
She should have told you and I am sure that past events now make sense to you.
Myocite · F
@iamonfire696 I agree! I would never keep a mental illness from my child for multiple reasons. Shame on my mom. I sure have been a great daughter to her, & will always know I did everything I could for her. I do love her so very much.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Myocite I am sorry she kept it from you.
Myocite · F
@iamonfire696 Thank you for saying that.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
the thing that strikes me about cases like this is that the parent didn't tell the child, so the child could tak possible preventative measures, and now the grow child is dealing with it
different genetics but I'm dealing with it now. my grandmother (dad's mom) didn't say anything at all, until mom was 6 months along with me
and I was born with Spina bifida
different genetics but I'm dealing with it now. my grandmother (dad's mom) didn't say anything at all, until mom was 6 months along with me
and I was born with Spina bifida
SethGreene531 · M
A close friend of mine battled it for several years. I was unaware just how bad he'd become until returning to visit. It's upended his education, any jobs or relationships, and thrown his family into chaos. Including jail stints and institution time. Mainly because he's refused to respect his treatment and medication regime. He was on Risperdal and told not to drink.
Eventually shutting down our relationship as well. He'd become the friend I never knew.
I can't imagine living under this as a child. Their world and all connected, are thrown into utter chaos. The instability makes it impossible for an organized life.
Undiagnosed or undisclosed, it's frightening for those family powerless to help.
So very sorry you had to endure this.
Eventually shutting down our relationship as well. He'd become the friend I never knew.
I can't imagine living under this as a child. Their world and all connected, are thrown into utter chaos. The instability makes it impossible for an organized life.
Undiagnosed or undisclosed, it's frightening for those family powerless to help.
So very sorry you had to endure this.
CantExplain · 61-69, M
The stigma was (is) so great that she couldn’t find a way to talk about it…
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Just love her with all your heart now.Dont be resentful towards her. Please dont. Just help her as much as you can. She did her best.I feel for her. I'm so sorry
Myocite · F
@Eddiesolds I'm very good to her. If you only knew. I do have a right to be upset and my feelings about it are very normal.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Myocite I'm sure you do. Just like I do. I've never experienced this though. I didnt mean to offend you.
Myocite · F
@Eddiesolds You didn't offend me at all. Thank you for taking the time to comment.:)
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
Maybe she didn't want to be judged...
4meAndyou · F
I thought metformin was a drug used for diabetes? The third ex was prescribed it for his diabetes.
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear that ☹️
Myocite · F
@Kumbayakid Unbelievable, I know.

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@Myocite Hey. You are carrying some burdens around these days. That's alot. If I can ever do anything let me know🤗
Mental illness comes with a lot of stigma attached to it... maybe she wanted to protect you and herself from that by hiding her illness and the longer it went on, the easier it became???
Myocite · F
@HootyTheNightOwl No, I'm actually very healthy and stable. To be raised by a mentally ill person and not know it is wrong.
Wiseacre · F
I wouldn’t blame her for not telling u!
Myocite · F
@Wiseacre I do blame her. I should know that a serious mental illness runs in the family at least 3 generations. I should know why she tried to commit suicide twice. I should know why she did terrible things in front of me. I should know why she told me to have sex with boys when I was in high school so I wouldn't eat so much. I should know why she said I was a role model for her. I should know why my own mom was jealous of me, why she behaved so strangely, and was verbally abusive. I should know a lot of things so I can process my life's events in a logical healthy way. She stole that from me by thinking of herself instead of her own child.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
Must be a mild case.
Myocite · F
@Fukfacewillie They think she has dementia at this point, but they're becoming confused because she passed the dementia pre screen today.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
@Myocite one day at a time…she may need to be institutionalized
Myocite · F
@Fukfacewillie No. She can live with me before that happens. Thank you for trying to help me.