I Am In Love With A Narcissist

[He Doesn't Care

He doesn't care that with every argument I lose a piece of myself.

He doesn't care that the things he doesn't do hurt me, hurt my heart.

He says he loves, but he loves himself more.

He says he needs me but his actions say something different.

He doesn't care about the tears I've cried, the pain my heart is in.

What happens in his world is far more important, far more painful , far more important.

I am nothing to him. So how can I care & love him when he can't offer me the same?

How can I be in such turmoil over someone that just doesn't care.

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Autumnday · 56-60, F

Sometimes it’s best to take control and just walk away . Very hard thing to do .

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

@Autumnday Yes, though that can be very hard, especially when you've been involved with the person for a long time and they've come to mean a great deal to you.

I don't know about the relationship the person who posted this is involved in, but sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that something that came to mean so much wasn't even real, it was all a big lie. That's something that I will probably have to come to terms with myself, though I have been (probably foolishly) clinging to the hope that there was (and still perhaps is) something real there.