I Am In Love With A Narcissist

[He Doesn't Care

He doesn't care that with every argument I lose a piece of myself.

He doesn't care that the things he doesn't do hurt me, hurt my heart.

He says he loves, but he loves himself more.

He says he needs me but his actions say something different.

He doesn't care about the tears I've cried, the pain my heart is in.

What happens in his world is far more important, far more painful , far more important.

I am nothing to him. So how can I care & love him when he can't offer me the same?

How can I be in such turmoil over someone that just doesn't care.

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Snowbunny1002 · 61-69, F

I’m still in the relationship/friendship .. not even sure what to call it at this point.
I can totally understand all you are saying and feeling.
It truly is a cycle for them. I feel I bend over backwards all the time to accommodate everything and just the smallest ask and he loses it, or he’s overwhelmed and can’t seem to balance much.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s so hard and it really does take a piece of your heart.
Have you reached out to him for answers ?
I know for me it’s hard to wait and I’d like him to be more responsive but I think he takes his time of purpose to respond most narcissist do.
I’m wishing you a sense of peace while this plays out because I know how hard it is.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

@Snowbunny1002 I'm sorry to hear that you're still apparently being hurt by this person. Thank you, I'm going to try everything I can think of to get some peace. We'll see what happens.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

@Snowbunny1002 Perhaps I should post the rest of my response here, though it is rather personal. I understand that some people aren't comfortable receiving private messages right away. Let me know. Thanks.

Snowbunny1002 · 61-69, F

@TeresaRudolph71 I’m ok receiving messages. I’m not on SW a lot but try to pop in :)