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Thanks.
I agree with DMN, he doesn't give a realistic view of a people pleaser. When you're being a people pleaser, you're being fake, manipulative and inauthentic. But you will have a lot of people who like you. It will be mistaken for "kindness". Although there may be an element of that as well.
P.S. Although I can certainly see how they would attract a narcissist. It would boost their ego and self worth X100, which is what they live for.
I agree with DMN, he doesn't give a realistic view of a people pleaser. When you're being a people pleaser, you're being fake, manipulative and inauthentic. But you will have a lot of people who like you. It will be mistaken for "kindness". Although there may be an element of that as well.
P.S. Although I can certainly see how they would attract a narcissist. It would boost their ego and self worth X100, which is what they live for.