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Are autistic people and people with disabilities meant to be single?

Why don’t they give us a chance? I mean I’ve been dumped for being autistic. I dumped a guy for being an ass. Two of my none disabled friends are happily married with kids. I’m just unlucky with love. One of my relatives said I should trying dating someone that I can relate to like date an autistic guy or a guy with a disability. My ex boyfriends were non disabled. I don’t wanna lock myself with only special needs men. There’s nothing wrong with them but come on. Even nice looking guys won’t even look at me. I have a great personality and I do have things I have with autism but I want a man to look pass my autistic and see the real me. I want to experience a long lasting healthy relationship and have children but I don’t think it will happen because I’m “special needs” I’m not special. I’m a regular person.
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
I think most likely you'll find someone who actually cares about you just not when you want it, it may come when the time is right, hehe
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Andromedanian How do you know? I’m just meant to be single. Being single SUCKS AF!
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
@ElizabethBabe1994 Because as cloche as that sounds it's usually the truth, if you deem yourself to be defective in some way that's the way you would be portraying yourself to other people. Plus that takes time to get to know someone, you need to put yourself out there and realize that you may have fewer options that others, big deal but there are people who have even fewer options than you do plus you're super young, being single now doesn't mean you'll forever be that.

I do know what that feels like believe or not.
SW-User
I'm mentally fucked beyond repair and I'm happily married. My husband has severe adhd as well, but I think we work so great because we're so similar on things we struggle with, so we understand each other on a different level.

You will find someone when the time is right 🤗
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@SW-User You're so lucky. Relationships never last for me and I don’t get second dates. I’m done dating.
SW-User
@ElizabethBabe1994 I had many bad relationships/dates before I met him, and I met him when I was done with relationships, and didn't want to meet anyone😅

 
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