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I Have a Child With Autism

New School!

My son started his new school today! Yikes!

Yesterday I went to a meeting to his old school. We went over his IEP and Behavior plan with this new school. i added some input. And I decided to try this new school because I just couldn’t handle constantly going to pick him up from school, or any more with him getting expelled.

GRRRRRR.

So I went over to the new school. Its known as a “bad” school. Its a school for kidz with behavior problems. His class is small and even has a courtyard thats closed in for him to jump around and run in. (AWESOME.) It looks like because the whole school is more structured, so in a way it gives him more freedom. He didn’t have lots of freedoms at his old school because they couldn’t handle him. Oh boy

I signed out all the paperwork and the secretary gave me a cab pass until bussing starts on Monday. I got to meet some counselors, secretary. I met his teacher and the two aides. And the security guard (IC).I told them all about him and they are all pretty stern – which is good for my son. Hes too good at manipulating hehe, to get his way.

Anyways. Yesterday was a bit rough. I was a bit emotional and overwhelmed lol. The school is a bit intimidating and scary looking but it looks pretty good and the right fit for my son right now. I was just so overwhelmed yesterday and my husband could care less.

He was surprised that he got sent to the “bad school” so fast. But I pushed for it because there was NO progress at his old school. Just a quick decline.

So …………………..

Today was his first day. Apparently he had a rough start but it was smooth sailing after that. I was so glad to hear. But the whole ordeal with my son has just put me on edge. With my speakers broken (cry for me please), I haven’t been able to do ANY stress dancing at all. And its really taken a toll on me. Oh boy.

I’m giving it until next Friday and then I’ll ask them if he needs an aide to follow him. I just found out that theres a program where an aide can shadow a student around school. For those who need it. So if he continues having difficult behaviors then I’m going to try and push for this.

Still emotional, but I’m feeling better about this.
hereisme
I am glad things seem to be getting on track with the schooling. Hopefully in a decent school like this where they understand his needs it might help him come out of his shell a little
Hope things work out although I must admit the idea of attending a school for kids with behavioural needs doesn't sound like a nice thing because sounds like he is bad and being sent there to be punished sort of thing but it ifs helping it can only be a good school
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
so far so good. he actually got to go to art class. theres spaces for him to run etc. its a small class. all boys lol. I know it sounds so scary. but he doesn't know that its a "bad kid" school. hes not aware of such things. not quite yet. but already the teacher her had him being able to answer with "yes " or "no".

i get so emotional and mushy with his developments sometimes lol
hereisme
Do you have any realistic expectations of what to expect now he is in his bad boy school.
Do you think the teachers there have what it takes to help with the autism maybe get him to open up more to people
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
they're working on it. he responds well to all the big men in the class room lol. he high 5vs them. its sooo cute. lots of kidz say "hi M---------". I love it. its gonna take time.
TheMetalRooster
I really hope it works out for you
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thank you
TheMetalRooster
How did today go?
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
good. I'm happy so far.

 
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