Dealing with government setups? [I Have Paranoia]

The past few days there has been talks of feminism vs. anti feminism by a lot of women online. My previous doctor brought into question my gender identity behind my back, just because I wear some feminine but nonetheless mens clothes and a bit of makeup. I am trying my best to move on from that. So I was walking into the Cafe and as I was walking in this woman gets in her like 5 year old sons face and calls him good for nothing and I was like 'oh boy' and went in. (I think this is a government setup, bear with me). This reminds me of how my mom is condescending and talks at the top of her lungs although I admit she wouldn't say something that bad. I believe the government is trying to gaslight me so all I do is give people the silent treatment, it let's them know I am angry without stirring up a situation. For example I was in a cafe and this woman kept going back and forth between the register line and looking at cakes then says to me oh is this the line, obviously it is, so I just said nothing while she stared at me and im happy with how I handled that. Again could be a government set up to make me go crazy. Read into it what you will about my paranoia, but if I have a positive coping mechanism what difference does it make. So the anger doesn't bottle up I make sure I work on familial relationships and take care of myself and I also play games on my phone to destress.