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I can’t believe my therapist would make a suggestion if I thought of living in a group home?

Really? Why would I want to live in a group home and have someone else tell me how to live my life? And have restrictions put on me just because I have mental health disabilities? I don’t want to live by restrictive rules. She asked me this if I thought about it wanting to live on my own away from my parents who were giving me trouble about my overdressing and over bundling and being warmly dressed up. I have to learn to take care of myself big time so when my parents die I will not be put into one of those places. I do not want to lose more freedom, independence, or autonomy than I already have. There have to be other options. I need to conquer these diseases and gain energy to tackle life stuff like household maintenance and management and life skills. So I can be independent as possible. That includes doing my own cooking, cleaning , I do laundry. Household shopping and buying. Myself my own personal items. Household maintenance. And management including paying bills, taxes, and navigating insurance. Having an education, career, hobbies/interests/talents/passions/skillsets/aptitudes, volunteering, travel, and socializing with family and friends. I do not want to be monitored by staff in a group home. It’s bad enough I was monitored in a. Psych hospital for two weeks and had no freedom. I don’t. Want my living arrangements. To be like a residential care facility. In a home setting.
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HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45
And now you are learning to advocate for yourself, too. This is another important skill that you will need one day.
WoWgirll · 36-40, F
You have to function
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
Time to drop that therapist.
(((((HUGS))))) Talk to a social worker about getting away from your toxic family
midnightmagic · 31-35, F
@NativePortlander1970 my family is not controlling in all aspects they just don’t let me drive and are breathing down my neck about my clothing choices. Because of my mental breakdown two years ago I didn’t protest guardianship of myself by them and thought it would be for the best as a temporary measure.
@midnightmagic It sounds all controlling, find a shrink You can talk to, to prove You are back in complete control of your mental facilities to get that guardianship released by a judge.

 
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