the anonymous snapchat message

an ex called me and stated "not to be rude but i cant talk to you anymore ". he knows that im in a relationship and i havent had contact with him in months and last time we talked he needed a ride . im so shocked and confused at the same time.why would there be a need to message me and telll me?????? that as if i cared. i just dont understand people. how can a guy who didnt care for me or anybody else care for someone else they have been talking to for a year ????? im no relationship expert but this guy doesnt even have guy friends and he friend he has just use him and have him around for their boost of steem. how a 31 year old guy with no car or high school diplomah happily with someone lol. i wished him well on his journey and i wished him the best. im just so lost and tbh i feel alittle stupid . i lost 10 year of my life for this person . i missed college and a major part of my life behind this dude and was mentally,emotionaly,and physicaly abused for years just for him to just up and leave . i quess its a goodo thing .why would somone beg me to come visit and have these long talks with me about how a woman suppose to have food ready when they get home when the guy isnt even working and if he was working i wouldnt get anything at all. i feel like a dumb ass. i just remember the times i would clean the whole house and miss going out with friends and family because i didnt have make up . not being abel to eat barey and i had to drink water out if the faucet knowing there was plenty of water to drink and i wasnt even allowed to go home i remember calling for help and calling phones and nobody would answer. its like mind boggeling .im just now starting to watch tv and just knwo knowing how to live life .its already hard for me to be happy in my current relationship becasue of the damage caused but i think im managing welll . lesssion learned . never meet a guy onine and if a guy doesnt support your dreams or even attemps to get to know you he is not interesed.you cant make somoen love you . what doesnt hurt you make you stronger.