So, I just showed actual concern for someone's health and welfare here...and he blocked me!

@basicpoet33 the person obviously has an eating disorder or worse. i just can't believe he overreacted

@DIABLISS Maybe you delivered it poorly.

@Queendragonfly did you read what i wrote? he put himself out there and when i suggested he eat something he said, "mind your business". you don't post a pic of yourself with not enough clothing and then say, "mind your business". i am genuinely concerned.

@DIABLISS No I saw no more info in your post. I understand your concern but telling someone with ED to just eat something can come off extremely rude and invalidating.

@Queendragonfly but then i asked what was wrong and suggested he seek medical attention and asked if he was vegan or vegetarian because they are usually abnormally thin. then i suggested what every thin person was suggested to do first by all of their physicians. to have milkshakes with every meal and make certain that they were watching what they were eating. he might be eating rubbish and it is going right through him. i also suggested to stop all smoking drugs and drinking of alcohol.

i went through this myself. it is not fun being that thin...even though people hate you for it. i would never want to be skinny again. And i hate the thought of others doing that to themselves.

@DIABLISS Maybe that's the problem. You commented for you. Not for him.

I have ED history too and people starting to talk about what I should eat...
No. Just don't. Don't force your opinions about food on someone struggling.

@Queendragonfly your first comment to me was rude...then you started Mom splaining things. You don't even know what was said between us except what i told you. your entire generation has ruined the way people speak to each other. we have to watch our p's and q's every second of every day. but the truth is....you don't want people to behave better...YOU want to control everyone and everything at every single turn.

What i said was not wrong...what i said might have been a bit to the point but it wasn't wrong. this guy has a health problem and is showing it off to the world. that means he is looking for a reaction. HE is crying out for help. he is trying to provoke and then cancel. This is what your generation is going to be known for . Cancelling the world.

I was genuinely scared for this man and now you are turning it onto me like it is my fault he blocked me. Next you will be telling me that it is my fault that he is suffering from what ever it is. We don't even know if it is an Eating disorder. He could have cancer.

@DIABLISS I'm just explaining it from my perspective and my theory on why you got blocked. Learn from it or reject it. Up to you.

@Queendragonfly your perspective is wrong....do you always blame the victim? i was hurt and worried about someone here and you turned it around on me. that is not a perspective that has any thing to do with you. if you were actually thin at one point than that is the perspective you should have taken. when i was painfully thin i always head these comments but i never took it as an insult. That would be stupid and childish. i recommended actual help to this person and he chose to go away. his right but it sends a crazy message. "I am asking for help and attention, never mind. i don't want any attention"

You're calling him stupid and childish for not appreciating your forced opinions? while you want everyone to feel sorry for you being blocked? He's not childish for setting a boundary, you are for not respecting his decision.

@DIABLISS Take this as a lesson. If you choose to comment on people and they don't like what you have to say they can block you. If you're afraid of that, maybe go easier on comments especially regarding mental illness it's a very risky subject to mess with and chances are you offend someone even if not intentionally because mental ill people are very sensitive to begin with. Remind yourself of that if you wanna help someone in the future. And never ever call them childish for standing up for themselves. Then you're too unstable yourself and shouldn't engage.

@Queendragonfly YOU ARE HILARIOUS! i have had this same stupid conversation with you. i am not hurt or really care that this poor soul is so messed up that he doesn't realize that i was genuinely showing concern about the fact that he is not eating. i am an expert on the subject. He is not eating...i tried to make light out of it to see if he would let me in....but no. it didn't matter what my attitude was, he was going to deny me access. and it didn't matter what i said to you. you were going to put a spin on it and make it seem like it was my problem, which it obviously isn't. you are one of the most persistent trolls i have ever met. but you are funny

@Queendragonfly So you admit that you are mentally ill? 'cause i have tried before to have a conversation with this guy and he cut me off when i tried the sweet sell. but that didn't really matter, especially to you. but he didn't actually block me. ..until this time. i think he put himself out there to knock people down because he feels so bad about himself. i have experience with other people being like him in person. i also know what it is like to deal with people like you.

@Queendragonfly isn't it sad how i was concerned about one of us and you turned it into a conversation about you?

@DIABLISS If you have so much experience with people like him why are you whining about being blocked? That should be expected.

I'm sorry if you've had a bad night but taking it out in message spam rage on me for giving you advice the same way you gave him advice, is really poor behavior.

I hope you find something more meaningful to do because me and him aren't the last people who will reject your advice or ways or block you.

Oh. And yes. I struggle with mental illness. Just like you. And him. It's not a competition and to use that against someone is absolutely beyond me. That will have to stand for you but do every mental ill person and favor, don't "help" us because clearly, you suck at it. Help yourself instead. And practice on respecting others boundaries, no excuses.

@Queendragonfly you have been leading up to blocking me since you got on this thread. and i don't back down.