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I Think the Ignorance About Mental Health Issues Must End

[b][u]Mind, Body, Soul[/u][/b]

It's good that people are now talking about Mental Health and the more we talk about it, the more awareness there is, the more people can learn and to reach understanding. Mind, body, soul. The three things that will keep you whole.

Now people could have a scientific debate and discuss whether the soul exists or not, but the only way I can describe soul is perhaps that maybe it is life itself. When someone kills someone, certain people will say, "That person took away his soul". For me that's "That person took away his life".

And then when you think of soul music or any music that is upbeat, some people would go, "That's got soul!" It's got zip, it's got pop, it's got energy and flow. It's lively. The song is alive! Which reminds me of the line out of the Sister Act Stage Musical by a character called Monsignor "The music has got soul. It makes me whole."

It's connected to feeling and feeling is the keyword when it comes to soul. It's how we feel about everyday life, it's how we feel about how we feel. And we should be able to express how we feel, not just through poetry, not just through art but in everyday conversation. The times where I got told to shut up because other people didn't want to listen. Or was it that simple? Is it really that straight cut? I don't think so! They were dealing with problems themselves, could have been problems in everyday life and it was doing their head in and that particular person took it out on me. I got the impression that person didn't care and I resented that person. It was an example of who NOT to become and perhaps to a certain degree I was right, but... at the crux of it, that person couldn't help how they were feeling. It was bottled up and when it's bottled up there is stress and frustration and then anger would only make a person tightly wound, especially in the chest and that's not good for the heart at all.

We must express how we feel and whilst we need to have self-control, think, and not to react every single time, to maybe a negative action. But at the same time we should talk about how we feel because it is the healthy thing to do and when people do not talk about it, they're carrying a load, baggage, weighty stuff, a burden, a cross to bear?

But how about that cross gets dumped, unload the baggage, bit by bit until you feel light again and then just carry a torch, that shining light, a beacon of hope. That you can pass on, brightening and enlightening other people.

Whilst things have improved in mental health, there can BE certainly more improvement. There is less stigma now I feel but we're still in the transition phase of this social change. And it IS about setting an example for the next generation. But then I feel the older generation can learn from us more than we can learn from them. But the question is, will they step up to this change? Or will they have the, "can't teach an old dog new tricks mentality"? And whilst there is this all of this at play, the fact is that while you are still living and breathing, it is never to early nor is it too late. So let's all step up to the plate, and lead by example and take action on our mental health and being honest with how we're feeling.

When we look after our mental health, when we look after our heads, we may prevent becoming mentally ill.

#WorldMentalHealthAwareness
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
I think mental health is such an underrated topic and I feel it should be covered by free healthcare like normal-body medicine. I think everyone should talk with a psychologist some times in their life, even people without problems, to better understand themselves.
Actually there are many people (and I'm thinking about someone close to me) not aware of their own issues, they just repress their nature and feelings.
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
@Sharky86 I agree. Mental health and Physical health can go hand in hand. It is about finding that balance that keeps us well.
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
I also believe that instead of Mental Health hospitals, if people are educated enough to recognise the signs of someone being mentally unwell and may suspect they have a particular diagnosis (which maybe confirmed by the Doctor or not). Early intervention, can mean that the individual gets treated within the community without having to be sectioned in a Mental health Hospital, before it got any worse.
Indy74 · 46-50, F
Well said. I have mental health issues and I have for years. My family has told me to keep quiet about it. They say they don't want the stigma for me. But, I think it's the other way around. I'm pretty open now, but people seem to get this scared look on their face when I speak about my issues.
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
Perhaps those people with the closed minds are struggling to? However, ignorance should be challenged. :)
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@AndrewC1993 I shall remember that. Thanks for talking about this topic. I needed this.☺
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
@Indy74 No problem. :) Perhaps a community gathering to share your experiences of mental health. You never know, you could be surprised. People may show! :) And people may learn and it may become a support group and of course, provide refreshments. :)
I appreciate that you want to remove the stigma of mental illness but I have serious mental illness and the rest of the post is New Age stuff that is not helpful to me. Some with more minor diagnoses may receive benefit but keep in mind, their’s various degrees.
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
Ah right. So you were in the hospital and then released into the community again. Same with me. So you say intutionalised because you were adapting to the hospital's routine and you wouldn't know how you would have adapted back into the community again?
@AndrewC1993 I was in a long term ward. I was not expected to recover. I’m done talking about it.
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notsure · 56-60, M
Yes for way to long there has been a stigma attached
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
@notsure Sure tell me. What has been your experience?
notsure · 56-60, M
@AndrewC1993 my daughter suffers with anxiety and depression
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
And yourself? What is the stigma that you experienced? Or was that experiencing it along with your daughter that you know the stigma? I ask because it says you're 46-50 and you said "For way too long". Care to elaborate? :)
LindaM · 61-69, F
very well said :)
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
If you don't mind. How bad does he have it? How long since the diagnosis?
LindaM · 61-69, F
@AndrewC1993 ill tell you more..i have got to go now..he got sick last April and diagnosed in March of this year...
AndrewC1993 · 31-35, M
@LindaM So not that long ago, then. Sure reply back when you get back online. :)

 
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