Depressed and frustrated

Laying in bed with my partner, I can read the signs that she is in the mood for some fun, I’ve had the same thoughts all week, the ideas and wants of things I want to do to her is overwhelming , I look down and all I see is a very soft limp cock where there used to be a rock hard throbbing cock, where had it gone , my thoughts of sex have not diminished and still see her as a sexy sexual lady. She rolls on her side and reaches out and strokes my softness, as the reaction is mute to her touch she leans in and kisses my cheek saying it okay I still love you, but the thing is I hate myself, feel so helpless I can’t give the one thing she really want.

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billybob69 · 61-69

no diabetes , but i’ve had radiation treatment and chemo therapy

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@billybob69 Ahhh i was going to ask that too. Some of the chemo stuff does that and the diabetes.

sree251 · 41-45, M

@billybob69 What was your illness? Did the radiation and chemo cure you?

billybob69 · 61-69

@sree251 cancer, yes , I’m cancer free now

sree251 · 41-45, M

@billybob69 You are in your sixties. Since when did you lose the capability to have sex with a woman?

billybob69 · 61-69

@sree251 it’s been a slow process. started a few years ago but the last year it’s been all the time, the excitement of having sex is still there but don’t get hard enough to penetrate

sree251 · 41-45, M

@billybob69 You must have started having sex with a woman in your late teens or early twenties. If you have lost that capability a few years ago, then you have had plenty for decades. You have done it more times than you can count. No reason to feel depressed now.