Depressed and frustrated

Laying in bed with my partner, I can read the signs that she is in the mood for some fun, I’ve had the same thoughts all week, the ideas and wants of things I want to do to her is overwhelming , I look down and all I see is a very soft limp cock where there used to be a rock hard throbbing cock, where had it gone , my thoughts of sex have not diminished and still see her as a sexy sexual lady. She rolls on her side and reaches out and strokes my softness, as the reaction is mute to her touch she leans in and kisses my cheek saying it okay I still love you, but the thing is I hate myself, feel so helpless I can’t give the one thing she really want.

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

Have you visited your doctor to discuss your options? Can you use other parts to get her off even if you aren't able to get off yourself? I hope you are able to work things out.

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@billybob69 Youre welcome. I hope you find a way.

billybob69 · 61-69

@Fungirlmmm i’m up for trying, thank you

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@billybob69 youre welcome

billybob69 · 61-69

no diabetes , but i’ve had radiation treatment and chemo therapy

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sree251 · 41-45, M

@billybob69 You are in your sixties. Since when did you lose the capability to have sex with a woman?

billybob69 · 61-69

@sree251 it’s been a slow process. started a few years ago but the last year it’s been all the time, the excitement of having sex is still there but don’t get hard enough to penetrate

sree251 · 41-45, M

@billybob69 You must have started having sex with a woman in your late teens or early twenties. If you have lost that capability a few years ago, then you have had plenty for decades. You have done it more times than you can count. No reason to feel depressed now.

HootyTheNightOwl

Depression can have that effect on men.

Maybe you could try to give her pleasure in ways that don't involve penetration for a while and see if that helps to lift your depression enough...

Baremine · 70-79, C

Do you have diabetes? The meds they give you for that will destroy your sex life. I hate what they have done to me. I understand where you are coming from.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@billybob69 Chances are you have a prostate problem. Get an exam and have your PSA level checked, If it's high you could have prostate cancer.

"Erectile dysfunction is usually caused by a variety of factors, including inflammation of the prostate and psychological disorders. ED-related risk factors were also found highly prevalent in male with prostatitis."
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7586169/#:~:text=Erectile%20dysfunction%20is%20usually%20caused,male%20with%20prostatitis%20%5B20%5D.

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