I Have Erectile Dysfunction

50% of men will have some form of impotence in their 50's and it increases 10% with each decade. The sad thing is most men do not want to talk about it. I believe it would help us by talking about it and letting each other know we are not alone.

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IBHappy · F

What's worse... most dont want to admit they have a problem with ED and make excuses to their partner instead of doing something about it.
=Very Sexually Frustrated

Pauly · 70-79, M

It hits the male ego. And talking doesn't always help. My now ex wife felt it was her fault. I had her talk to my doctor, and that did not help. She eventually went outside our marriage for infamy you and filed for divorce. @IBHappy

IBHappy · F

@Pauly My last bf had severe ED problems. We talked about it ALOT, and he would tell me he would talk to his doctor. I dont think he ever did. We finally broke up and that was one of the reasons why.

Pauly · 70-79, M

Exactly! His ego got in the way, and he wouldn't allow himself to open up to his doctor.@IBHappyb

IBHappy · F

@Pauly Its his loss all the way around.

Pauly · 70-79, M

There are several links on the internet that discusses how to discuss impotence with your doctor. Hopefully if he read some of those it would help him have the courage to discuss it with his doctoe. @IBHappy

IBHappy · F

@Pauly Its now his problem alone. I tried to help to no avail. I have since moved on.