Another confusing meme..
If you don't like them enough to be flattered by their attempt then why would it be fun?
36-40, F
If you don't like them enough to be flattered by their attempt then why would it be fun?
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Raaii · 22-25, F
for me it's like
It's hard for me to communicate but I try my best to connect and reply in a conversation
It all gets weird when someone asks for dates etc
Be it online or offline
To me it's like an awkward end
I don't date
So ofcourse that's not what I expected or I'm prepared for
I hardly talk and when I talk it's just general conversation between two humans and I'm always respectful of the boundaries even between friends
Suddenly asking something like that really disappoints me like mostly everyone is same
None is for genuine connections or advices
They're just trying to find dates everywhere
That's all in their mind all this time
And when you decline politely they may get violent sometimes
They had that expectation which can't be fulfilled
But I'm wrong
It's hard for me to communicate but I try my best to connect and reply in a conversation
It all gets weird when someone asks for dates etc
Be it online or offline
To me it's like an awkward end
I don't date
So ofcourse that's not what I expected or I'm prepared for
I hardly talk and when I talk it's just general conversation between two humans and I'm always respectful of the boundaries even between friends
Suddenly asking something like that really disappoints me like mostly everyone is same
None is for genuine connections or advices
They're just trying to find dates everywhere
That's all in their mind all this time
And when you decline politely they may get violent sometimes
They had that expectation which can't be fulfilled
But I'm wrong
Raaii · 22-25, F
@PaleandPolluted and I never like someone that way
Like I want to say that dating is not evrythng
Sometimes there's a friend or mentor or teacher and at the end when they do something like that it gets so weird
Like I'll have never imagined
And I always know they're so different
I'll know that it's not just only me
They're doing this with a lot of people
Like trial and error
It certainly changes my perspective about the person
So it's mostly s those people who casually ask many people to hang out
I feel like I'm so cheap in their eyes
It's always better to get to know before so that you can atleast avoid them
but again if you avoid they'll say you've ego
Not all are same
But it's hard to believe in people
🤦♀️
Like I want to say that dating is not evrythng
Sometimes there's a friend or mentor or teacher and at the end when they do something like that it gets so weird
Like I'll have never imagined
And I always know they're so different
I'll know that it's not just only me
They're doing this with a lot of people
Like trial and error
It certainly changes my perspective about the person
So it's mostly s those people who casually ask many people to hang out
I feel like I'm so cheap in their eyes
It's always better to get to know before so that you can atleast avoid them
but again if you avoid they'll say you've ego
Not all are same
But it's hard to believe in people
🤦♀️
Raaii · 22-25, F
@PaleandPolluted also I don't understand why people give that weird eye to me when they come to know that I've always been single
Like it's normal for me and I'm fine
Isn't it just a state of life
All these peer pressure around me sometimes make me want to have someone too but that's just it
I really don't want to have any sort of relationship outside or before marriage sorry I really made your post's comments section a place to write out 🙇♀️
Like it's normal for me and I'm fine
Isn't it just a state of life
All these peer pressure around me sometimes make me want to have someone too but that's just it
I really don't want to have any sort of relationship outside or before marriage sorry I really made your post's comments section a place to write out 🙇♀️