SW is way too enabling sometimes

Someone could post about murdering someone and you'll have comments like "it's ok bbgorl, you didn't mean it. You're a good person and anyone who can't see that is dead to us anyway💙"

Like come on, now. This isn't being kind lmao

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CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Hugbox environments can actually be a problem as sometimes people need to be told to fucking knock it off so you don't endlessly enable maladaptive behaviour. It's just how do you do that with someone in distress as well, right.

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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@CountScrofula @HijabaDabbaDoo I mean, there's nothing wrong with telling someone that their actions are messed up. There's not even anything wrong with telling them they have a behavior pattern to look at. Seriously, calling someone's behavior toxic is not the same thing as calling the person toxic, and if they take it that way, they weren't going to change, anyway.

JohnnySpot · 56-60, M

The well-being of average folks outweighs the doting on of unreasonable people.