I think I might've upset a friend of mine
I bring him with me when I visit my mom sometimes. She was there for him in some of his hardest times so he's always happy to see her.
This is the same friend who's dating my ex & my mom already knows that because I've told her before. So when we were all together he mentioned something about her so I told my mom "oh you know he got her pregnant now too?" & she looked at him like "woah the same girl you warned [i]him[/i] not to get pregnant back then?" She was just pointing out the irony 馃槀
It seemed like that was enough to bother him because he got kinda defensive 馃し he was like "yeah because he couldn't hold on to her" & I told him "Why would I hold on to her? We didn't work out & neither of us wanted to be together. Why are you making it sound like she dumped me? 馃槀"
All he said was "nah you lost her" so I just laughed like "dude I didn't want her, that's not the same as losing her but alright then".
I feel like the little argument was petty in the first place but it kinda bugs me to think that he feels like he stole a girl from me that I couldn't keep.. that's not a very "friend-like" mentality.
Maybe he doesn't know that after we split up & she blatantly asked me for his phone number, I was the one who gave it to her 馃し I thought it was weird hooking her up with my friend but that was my way of saying "screw it, I don't care"
It doesn't bother me still, but that was like 2 weeks ago & my homie hasn't talked to me since. I get the feeling that's what's bothering him 馃 Sorry guys, just ranting 鉁岋笍
This is the same friend who's dating my ex & my mom already knows that because I've told her before. So when we were all together he mentioned something about her so I told my mom "oh you know he got her pregnant now too?" & she looked at him like "woah the same girl you warned [i]him[/i] not to get pregnant back then?" She was just pointing out the irony 馃槀
It seemed like that was enough to bother him because he got kinda defensive 馃し he was like "yeah because he couldn't hold on to her" & I told him "Why would I hold on to her? We didn't work out & neither of us wanted to be together. Why are you making it sound like she dumped me? 馃槀"
All he said was "nah you lost her" so I just laughed like "dude I didn't want her, that's not the same as losing her but alright then".
I feel like the little argument was petty in the first place but it kinda bugs me to think that he feels like he stole a girl from me that I couldn't keep.. that's not a very "friend-like" mentality.
Maybe he doesn't know that after we split up & she blatantly asked me for his phone number, I was the one who gave it to her 馃し I thought it was weird hooking her up with my friend but that was my way of saying "screw it, I don't care"
It doesn't bother me still, but that was like 2 weeks ago & my homie hasn't talked to me since. I get the feeling that's what's bothering him 馃 Sorry guys, just ranting 鉁岋笍
