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I think I might've upset a friend of mine

I bring him with me when I visit my mom sometimes. She was there for him in some of his hardest times so he's always happy to see her.

This is the same friend who's dating my ex & my mom already knows that because I've told her before. So when we were all together he mentioned something about her so I told my mom "oh you know he got her pregnant now too?" & she looked at him like "woah the same girl you warned him not to get pregnant back then?" She was just pointing out the irony 😂

It seemed like that was enough to bother him because he got kinda defensive 🤷 he was like "yeah because he couldn't hold on to her" & I told him "Why would I hold on to her? We didn't work out & neither of us wanted to be together. Why are you making it sound like she dumped me? 😂"

All he said was "nah you lost her" so I just laughed like "dude I didn't want her, that's not the same as losing her but alright then".

I feel like the little argument was petty in the first place but it kinda bugs me to think that he feels like he stole a girl from me that I couldn't keep.. that's not a very "friend-like" mentality.

Maybe he doesn't know that after we split up & she blatantly asked me for his phone number, I was the one who gave it to her 🤷 I thought it was weird hooking her up with my friend but that was my way of saying "screw it, I don't care"

It doesn't bother me still, but that was like 2 weeks ago & my homie hasn't talked to me since. I get the feeling that's what's bothering him 🤔 Sorry guys, just ranting ✌️
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SW-User
Maybe he felt like you were talking bad about her/disrespecting her and since he’s with her now he obviously got offended. But yeah I agree it was a petty argument, but maybe you should bring it up to him? That’s if you wanna be the one to reach out of course
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User she's a good person, I wasn't trying to talk bad about her but I could see how he'd take it that way. Honestly I think it just low-key bothers him that I used to be with her. Typically guys don't like hanging out with other guys who used to bang his baby mama 😂 like he knows I have videos of us doing things.. if I were him I'd feel kinda awkward too 🤷
SW-User
@ChiefJustWalks lmao well you definitely know why he’s upset then 😅
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User well nobody forced him to get with my ex lmao that's his own fault 😂
SW-User
@ChiefJustWalks lol I definitely agree but I’m saying you know why he’s upset then 😂, I personally couldn’t and wouldn’t date my friend’s ex that would be weird as hell
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User I couldn't either... the history just makes everything weird. I'm not mad about anything though I only hope they don't make shit weird themselves
SW-User
@ChiefJustWalks Yeah it’s probably a problem with them feeling weird with it themselves