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Men…is this true: Can a woman ever express her love or affection for you too much?

This is a question I often ponder. I’m naturally very loving and affectionate. Like when I’m with someone, I have no problem expressing my love for them through text or phone call whenever I get the urge lol. But I try not to do it too much because apparently people say it turns men off when you do that. Like it seems as if you’re chasing them. But if we are together, why does me expressing my love to you make me creepy or overbearing lmao. It’s like you never really know what to do. Like why do we have to play games to keep someone who so called loves us interested. Why can’t we just rest and feel comfort in our love lol? Just a few thoughts. No my partner has not made me feel less than for showing my love to him. But so many articles and so called love gurus go against it. Pretty much saying we will annoy them and push them away if we text first too much, or always initiate contact first, or say you love them too much. Apparently we need to cause men to always want to chase us in order to keep them interested. Thats ridiculous. If we love each other, it should simply be that. No games, so my question is, is this true?? Men??
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There’s a difference between expressing love and being clingy, showing PDA in the most inappropriate circumstances, or showing affection to the point where the other person feels suffocated.

People have different needs for space, or ways of expressing love. Couples have to find that balance on what is comfortable for both parties.
TexChik · F
@CookieCrumbs That's one of those things women have to pay attention to. How much is enough, and how little is too little? In a romantic setting, certainly more is better. When we are working or busy with life, I will sneak a hug and maybe steal a kiss, and then I am out of his hair. If we are alone together, he gets picked on and flirted with. I do what feels right and fun. Being single, though, is a different affair. More is less in that situation. Pour it on when intimacy is the goal, and then give only enough to keep him wanting the rest of the time. 😉
@TexChik
We think alike here.

Well said, my friend!