I Believe In Multiple Types Of Soul Mates

[b][u]Why One When Its Difficult To Find One[/u][/b]

I got to know that [b]body[/b] on earth, is [b]soul[/b] in heaven.

Heaven or Earth after death, in my opinion, is a stupid theory, for we already exist as souls in heaven (spiritual realm) & body in Earth (physical realm).

Like how we wear a special robe to enter a furnace, the soul wears the body to do work on earth.

so its a world of soul acquaintances
in which we find that its so difficult to find a soul-mate, cause none have time to spend with another to know another.

[u][b]So where and when did we give time to another, to ask for one?[/b][/u]

So lets start sculpting or making soul mates of as many,

rather than expecting one to come out of the blue,

and [u]end up with one[/u]

[big]made
by
someone
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OogieBoogie · F

Hmmm... Soul mates is just one type of great connection.
There are twin flames, life partners, mentors, companions, kindred spirits... All types.

They click with us in differnt ways.

in10RjFox · M

@OogieBoogie beautifully said.. but all of them are soul mates too ..

OogieBoogie · F

@in10RjFox yeah - all types of SM.

We are complex creatures - we have differnt wants and needs from each other, and even from ourselves.
At 20 we may want one thing - at 40, another.🤷‍♀️

Those special few - who find 'the one ' for all their future - I think they make it work, because of total trust.
And total honesty.
And sharing the resources they both bring. .

in10RjFox · M

@OogieBoogie
[quote] Those special few - who find 'the one ' for all their future - I think they make it work [/quote]

I differ in the sense that I see them as having attained a complacency .. no motivation to play and fear of failure.. and just settled with what they have..

Usually apparent from the way they talk or approach things ..

OogieBoogie · F

@in10RjFox yeah, there are those that settle, but, they haven't found a Soul mate - they've made a nest and have found a tolerable knowable life. Amd for some, that's enuff.
The ones I mean are those that you see in their latter years... Still vibrant... Their eyes light up when their love talks, arrives, laughs. They can disagree, but enjoy the challenge to share their difference.
They have found the balance of self and desire with no competition.

But it's rare - it only takes a change in dynamic, or a small imbalance undressed and two who may have nearly made it - dont.

It's rare we ever really get to see someone's core, our own even.
We are biased about ourselves and blinkered about others.
Wanting so badly we get stuck still looking for more.
Some even get with their soul mate - only to never see what they have and move on.

in10RjFox · M

@OogieBoogie [quote].
We are biased about ourselves and blinkered about others. [/quote]

So very true.. we all become someone very fast and later find it difficult to unbecome ourselves..

And I have observed that most living in their best become like siblings .. is what long term marriage does to them.. no romance no sex .. but habituated..

Sure there are vibrant few but minuscule amidst a myraid..

in10RjFox · M

@OogieBoogie omg! We have interacted so much earlier too .. and how different our take is each time ..

OogieBoogie · F

@in10RjFox we change.... It's inevitable... I still believe what i wrote though.
Humans have become shallow. Always looking out.... Or forward.

Never 'in' and "now '.

Looking for that stupid impossible 'forever happiness '.... When pure contentment is such a beautiful thing.

in10RjFox · M

@OogieBoogie I see it as going the wrong direction.. for even thinking is walking .. and none realise who made us think in this direction which is entirely wrong .. but they have a lot of company and majority of fools are together.. 😀😀