I Believe In Multiple Types Of Soul Mates

@Candie

Yes and everyone must understand the obligation and not keep themselves away from it in the name of chastity sanity etc. They seem to be more obligated to the scriptures that they read early in life but ignore the obligation to LIFE ..

They starve and make the other part starve too ..

That's an interesting way to look at it. Some people feel more like an accessory in relationships than like a person.

@abstractmuse90: lol yeah .. as if they were never endowed with a mind of their own to think and assert and that they have to ask their spouse or s/o .... which is pseudo parenting ..

lol yeah, i feel like i kind of turned into a parent when i was in a relationship, and it was with a guy who was and is still an alcoholic. So it's nice to not feel like i have to fix or parent someone.

@in10RjFoxsorry... I missed this reply.

I'm techlexic, I wouldn't even know how to start a blog.... And I fear the stuff I know would run out pretty soon 😂

@OogieBoogie and you missed my pm as well sent long ago .. 😀

@in10RjFox ah... I'm so sorry.

I have My PM's set pretty limited.

@in10RjFox: asking you.

well.. hope you can see I have never used the word "love" anywhere. Loving is easy and it just a willingness. But soul mates go a bit beyond the usual.

@in10RjFox: Ahhhh yes I see.
My apologies for not properly understanding.

@OogieBoogie Habituated and Domesticated..imagine a Domesticated tiger moving about like a cat ..😄😄😄

I always say marriage has done more harm to humanity than good..

@in10RjFox I've actually been thinking lately that when/ if you marry, or whatever and have kids - it's called something else like union for family, or parental marriage.
And the only commitment is for the duration and stability of their care. It has a time limit.
Then, afterwards, you are free to stay together or part.... Easily _ with laws and protocols already set in pkace.

@OogieBoogie yah got it right.. Bingo.. marriage should be for a limited period with rolls and extensions if need be .. like a movie project after which parents are just paper work.. children move on with their family name ..

In fact marriage system was created for progeny unfortunately abused for sexual exclusivity...

I once thought of a what if situation when I understood sex as a peppy beverage that is within us which we need another to have with.. and what if beer or cigarette gained that stigma.. and that you need to get married to have a beer .. and you can't have beer before marriage and can't go with anyone else to a bar.. and you need to wait for your partner .. hahaha.. it was hilarious..

@OogieBoogie omg! We have interacted so much earlier too .. and how different our take is each time ..

@in10RjFox we change.... It's inevitable... I still believe what i wrote though.
Humans have become shallow. Always looking out.... Or forward.

Never 'in' and "now '.

Looking for that stupid impossible 'forever happiness '.... When pure contentment is such a beautiful thing.

@OogieBoogie I see it as going the wrong direction.. for even thinking is walking .. and none realise who made us think in this direction which is entirely wrong .. but they have a lot of company and majority of fools are together.. 😀😀