Tell me not to reply to him A while back I wrote about this guy I’d been dating who wanted a...

Greenry · 46-50, M

I mean… if you want to call him then call him. Just know that if you do you’ll be semi-ghosted again and the cycle will keep repeating itself until one of you stops. If you stop then you’re in control of the situation. If he stops you’ll forever seek closure.

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

If he’s calling to “see how you’re doing” you’re probably correct that it’s for a booty call.

Since he’s the one that ghosted you, getting together needs to be 100% his idea and he should have been specific. Don’t waste time w him and miss the next one that comes along

Redbeard · 56-60, M

I wouldn't. He left, let him go. Apparently the better option(s) he had out there fell through. Now you are his fallback-to person. It's his loss, not yours.

Tumbleweed · F

Hmmm.... well, sometimes a good booty call is all a girl needs. 🥴
Just be careful not to get your feelings involved because he may do it again...

robertsnj · 56-60, M

you wil do whatever you will do with this however, tell us about this guy. i see you are seperated. how long seperaed and how is dating life overall? Will you divorce your hubby or is it a break between you two?

OldBrit · 61-69, M

Don't call him back. You'll feel really bad about yourself after the event I'm sure given you're saying this here.

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

Yup, he is horny and nowhere else to go. You could suggest putting a chastity cage on him for a month, and then date him. See what he thinks of that idea.