I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

He said he loved me.. We were together for three years. I was so much into the relationship, I gave up my family, friends, hobbies, everything. Now 2 days after our 3 year anniversary he broke up with me. A week before my birthday. It has been horrible, I woke up one day and realised I have nobody to talk to. I kept talking to him, being nice. He is just indifferent, having fun with friends, seeing some other girl while I wallow in self pity. I have had enough sleepless nights and crying on pillow to last me forever. I wish I could move on and be normal, but its so effing difficult.

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MBAStudent

You deserve much better than him. YOU DESERVE THE BEST. I have been there. I know what it feels like. Enrich your life and love yourself. So many people in this world need you dear. The helpless woman needs you, the hungry kid needs you, the hopeless man on the street needs you. Love yourself. Please. For me. For us. We all love you and care for you. You have immense potential to help others and love others who are not loved. I have been there before...You are not alone. Do good for others and it will help build you. It will help you find happiness and self confidence. Connect yourself to your interests. I have been through the worst of the worst break ups and heartbreaks. I am single today and am happy. I have come to understand that the only thing that helps me feel completely happy is helping others in ways that seek to make a difference. Love those who need love and give to those who need to be given to. A 10 year old boy who does not have access to food, shelter, or the basics need your love and support. If you help someone who needs your help instead of thinking about people who reject you, your life will become fulfilled. Love yourself. You are beautiful and talented. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Use your talent to help others...you will feel happiness and bliss coming into your life.