I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me
This is the story of my life.I start caring about someone and I always get rejected,hurt or used.I'm starting to think there is no girl out there that will ever love me.
26-30, M
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l3g3nd
Honestly man, I think I can help you. The trick to finding love is to stop looking for it. You're getting screwed over because you likely present yourself to girls as this really nice, caring guy, and that's fine, but it's also your problem. Girls want a man with confidence and they like a challenge. Seriously. Stop pining over them because it decreases your value in their eyes. You need to become desirable, and you do that by focusing on yourself and being the best version of yourself possible. Confidence, confidence, confidence. Any ladies on here that can back me up?
TjDee
^true
l3g3nd
thank you haha I had to learn the hard way too but super nice guys always end up in the friend zone
TjDee
and i just want to add that often times, we give pieces of our heart to the wrong people for the wrong reason or we still haven't met the right one yet. Either way, I believe that good people deserve all the love they have always dreamed of. ^^
gabbieceleste
Love takes time. It sucks now but trust me when I say it gets better. You will find someone someday. Just be patient.
Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
I been trying for 5 years now.i still have never even kissed a girl
gabbieceleste
Most of the time, love comes at random. Stop looking because one day when you least expect it you will meet someone. Be patient. (:
FlowerLoveQueen
I feel the same way😕
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l3g3nd
That's what I figured. Did you read my other post? I really think I can help you my man. Based on your picture, you aren't ugly or anything, so it's something that you're doing. PM me if you're interested in getting some solid advice.
Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
Yeah I did thanks
l3g3nd
No problem. In High School, I had the exact same problems my man. But I learned the hard way exactly what I was doing wrong and now...let's just say it's not a problem anymore. I'm more than willing to actually apply it to your real life situations but I'd rather do it through PMs. So the offer is there if you wanna message me.
LittleSisu
My life in three sentences.
Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
And on top of that my only relationship experience was an online relationship with a man and his wife pretending to be a girl to mess with me and use me for thier own gains.
LittleSisu
It blows. I'm sorry you feel like that. You can message me if you want so it's not all on your post
Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
Just messaged you