A friend of mine has a problem

She says whenever she and her boyfriend get intimate she feels pain though they've done it a couple of times over the three years they've been together. She was a virgin when she met him. He's talking about marryimg her and she's worried because she knows when they move in together it'll be a regular thing. What could be the issue?

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nevergiveup · M

My wife has that problem now as she has been through the menopause but it comes down to the same thing plenty of lube and being gentle taking there time to warm up.

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@nevergiveup Do you ever get frustrated I won't judge? Do men go through menopause?

nevergiveup · M

@Thandeka I dont with her as its not her fault

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@nevergiveup You seem like a wonderful husband.

nevergiveup · M

@Thandeka I do my best