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I Am In Love With A Married Man, Who Loves Me Equally

The title it self is not good.i know mostly people here will judge me,i just want to share my story.

How will i start my story? Hmm well out of boredom i tried this social dating app.i met some guys there and there was this one guy who really caught my attention. As the the start of usual conversation on dating app of course mostly guys there will say they are single..josh told me he is single.so then we shared our stories and there was this feeling of attachment.after few days he confess to me that he is married.i was hurt and disappointed. He told me that is falling in love with me and so i admitted that i feel the same way and i know this is wrong so we decided to stop.until one day he sends me message again.he said he can't afford to lose me so we just maintain the friendship that we started and i agreed. He said i should not fall in love with him but he can fall in love with me.i am happy with the idea coz i don't want to lose him.maybe now "[b][center]we are more than friends but less than a lover"[/center][/b]
Teirdalin · 31-35
That's absolutely stupid on every level.

a) He lied to you.
b) He's using you.
c) He's cheating on his wife.
d) He's probably lying about numerous other things as well.

You've known each other for only a few days for crying out loud and he lied to you from day one. What kind of scum even uses a dating site if they're married?
TinyGiant · 26-30, M
@Teirdalin: preach!
Ladywiththepants · 31-35, F
@Teirdalin: wait wait wait, you mean guys cheating on their wives are not honest? Say it isn't sooo
Teirdalin · 31-35
@Ladywiththepants: From their situation they lied first then cheated. So wouldn't it be the other way around being that liars cheat on their wives and not necessarily that cheaters are liars?

But anywho, it is so. :o
AnarchoMetalchic · 36-40
My ex husband did this very thing to a woman he met. He told her he couldn't lose her, and that he was falling for her. He did it only to have someone on the side. Once he and I split up, he ditched her as well. She thought they had a future together, and that he was madly in love with her, as he had told her that. This is a recipe for disaster. Don't let yourself be the fool. You don't know who else he tells those same lines to.
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
@AnarchoMetalchic u r right
AnarchoMetalchic · 36-40
@olderguy2016 Something every woman loves to hear. lol
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
@AnarchoMetalchic do you like to pm with me?
TinyGiant · 26-30, M
That's begging for a bad ending.

Cut it off before it gets too big.

Mostly because...You know...He's married...

So if he's lying to his wife...What are the odds he won't lie to you?

How long before the "it just happened" story?

Or "Oops I pregnant"?

Do yourself a favor and leave him alone.
MsMontgomery · 51-55, F
A few DAYS & he said he loved you?.... I don't know how many relationships you've had, but he sounds full of 'it' & you could do much better. ... I'm sure his wife could too.
This is a really bad idea.... Someone is going to get hurt
Danez · M
As it is right now it doesn't seem like there is anywhere that it can go. So is there a relationship or no?
Sassygirl15 · 36-40, F
Well i wanna stop communicating with him.. maybe i should make distance little by little
Danez · M
@Sassygirl15: I mean if you think you could be friends then there's no harm to communicate with him. But it may not be good because he may string you along.
Sassygirl15 · 36-40, F
@Danez4u: yes you are right.. it is sooo hard😔😔
Goralski · 51-55, M
Awwwwwww and I suppose he's leaving his wife haaaaaaaa
Sassygirl15 · 36-40, F
@Goralski: leaving his wife? We are just friends
Goralski · 51-55, M
@Sassygirl15: yeah friends
JP1119 · 36-40, M
So you never even met in person?
Sassygirl15 · 36-40, F
@JP1119: we've met
JP1119 · 36-40, M
@Sassygirl15: Did you bang?
Sassygirl15 · 36-40, F
No lol
Livingwell · 61-69, M
If you decide to break it off, don't ghost him. Just be honest and make it clean.
Sunshine59 · F
That's a hard relationship I wish you all the best
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
remain as friends.it is good for both.
Alexsw · 70-79, M
@ChickenWingFreak: go head..

 
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