One thing I truly admire about my beloved is how they reacte when I'm consumed by rage or darkness after I'm hurt.

They know I would give them complete control over the relationship and our dynamic, yet instead of preaching or telling me what to do, telling me how forgiveness is better, or how mercy and compassion are always the best options, or taking the chance to show off their wisdom, they choose empathy and grace towards me.

They also never throw unsolicited advice to feel superior. They gently and honestly show me how my reckless actions could hurt them too, and not in an accusatory tone. They don't play on guilt.They show vulnerability and contain me in a way that makes me see they are protecting me from myself, not just from others.

Their genuine support truly helps me see the potential impact of my extreme actions without feeling judged. Not once did they ever equate me with my negative feelings and that helps too. It brought us closer and deepened our connection because I felt seen beyond the thorns I have grown to survive before knowing them.