I Am In Love With Someone Ive Never Met

Is it love or is it lust if you have never met the person; and you find them intriguing, interesting, funny, and attractive without even knowing them or seeing them? There are a few women here on SW that certainly can fall into this arena; and I would not mind meeting some of them someday, even if it was for a brief encounter.

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joahola98wj · 36-40, F

It's neither. I've had enjoyable and stimulating conversations with people online and I've read articulate writings that I found appealing online, but I never lusted or fell in love with someone through the Internet. We can’t see people’s body language, hear the tone of their voice or the sound of their laugh, watch how they behave around other people, or smell their scents. We also don’t know their complete life stories. We don’t witness their habits and behavior we don’t like that they do. We also don’t know if people mean the words they say online. Someone can say all the right things without feeling anything.