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Dad, miss you

No one could have ever thought when you went in the ER in January just two months ago, that in a week you'd have a terminal cancer diagnosis. I never ever would have, even for a moment.
I'm sorry it was all so fast Dad. That they said it was a rapid and aggressive type. You went through hell and I wish I could have taken away the awful lung infection you developed too. If I could have I would have in a heartbeat. I guess I won't be able to hold your hand again. Or talk about Dexter again... or watch the new Resurrection series together.

Even though there were times in my life I actually couldn't stand you, Bec you'd yell at the drop of a hat and just become obnoxious, I miss your silly analogies. I will always remember the last hug I gave you, on the day you passed. You had labored breathing and your shoulders were so thin. But I'll always have that memory of that hug. I love you , Dad.
Your pal,🩷💜
Baybreeze
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I am sorry for your loss I lost my mom it is very hard losing a parent 😞 it is very hard to get over it because you always wish you had them back
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@ExperienceDLT It is hard, yes. I'm sorry you lost your mom🌹 How old was she? I just never thought I would be without my dad. It makes me sad I can't just talk once more.
@Baybreeze my mom was 78 when she passed so she did live a good life but what was so hard for me was she had a massive heart attack and she died right at my feet i was trying to help my dad to get her to emergency room and she just collapsed by the time the ambulance got there she was gone 💔 😔
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@ExperienceDLT I'm so sorry 💛 That must've been so difficult. I'm glad she did live a pretty long life.Many warm sympathies 💐
@Baybreeze it was very hard it still bothers me and it breaks my heart that i couldn't do anything to save her 💔 😢 she was the most important person in my life
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@ExperienceDLT At least we can know their spirit is always here🩷 I get a helpless feeling still as well. My dad didn't die instantly but he only had Three weeks after his diagnosis in January. I'd see him trying to to talk and he couldn't with jumbled speech..it just BROKE me inside. He muttered Can't talk. 😕I said to him "It's ok dad. " To comfort him. They will never be gone even if their physical shell is..🌺
@Baybreeze i am sorry you had to go through that 😔
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@ExperienceDLT Thanks, and likewise Experience 🌸😟