if you fell in love with someone with an std..

@SensualRomantic yeah i can see how that would feel like a manipulation, but i do see how someone would want to wait someone's intentions before putting themselves out there to potentially be gossiped about, etc.

@foldedunfolding I believe that when you start having feelings to someone, you should be more honest.

If someone is not going to be with you after sharing information like that, then why wait for later?

It's almost like being married but not sharing the information with someone who has interest on you. Why wait... just tell it first and if it's a deal breaker, then it's better at the beginning.

@SensualRomantic if you're online or something sure..but i can imagine that if we put ourselves in the shoes of someone with an std..it would be terribly difficult to relive the experience, the shame, and deal with any social fall-out.

@foldedunfolding Love is strong against any issues. If you love someone with all your heart, you wouldn't care. But that doesn't mean someone can wait to share important details like that until we love each other. Actually, if this happening not on online, and in real, it means that more physical touch might happen so I think that information should be shared immediately.

@SensualRomantic that's the thing..they don't KNOW it is love until it is love lol. and they can say it when things get more heated, i think. but..i think this is an impt and positive discussion for us to have, and thank you for your comment!