Why is it when the first time you fall in love your heart beats fast but after you are in relationship with them the feelings started to fade?

Is love just temporary because I don't want my partner losing his excitement when with me in long period of relationship. (hypothetically, I am single so just read based on that question).

What causes love to fade?
Is it one partner unable to satisfy them to make them find another one?
Or the goal is just to have sex?

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DaughteroftheMoon · 26-30, F

At the beginning of a relationship, feelings, just like hormones, trembled. Passion is strong and it predominantly defines our relationship with our partner... However, when passions subside, this does not mean that love stops, but that it only gives way to a deeper connection and love that is even more intimate than that which is based mainly on passion. ..It is quite expected that the intensity of emotions will weaken, and that we will simply get used to that someone being next to us... One of the most common reasons for breakups nowadays are unrealistic expectations that partners have for each other. The delusion of compatibility between partners occurs due to the influence of their hormones at the very beginning of the relationship, or as psychologists would say, during the period of "good chemistry"... At that stage, partners are blinded by their lust, and when it disappears, they realize that may have made a wrong choice when they decided to enter into a relationship..

iamelijah · 26-30, M

@DaughteroftheMoon Does it mean anyone has partner right now is not guarantee to be their soul mate even though they are married?

Ohh. Why love has to be that complicated. 😟

DaughteroftheMoon · 26-30, F

@iamelijah No! It doesn't have to mean... I got out of a relationship of 8 years a month ago. It was really my greatest love, but it faded away, it was spent, nothing connected us anymore except friendship, not to mention sex.. We didn't do anything about it. , more precisely, we didn't want to because there were no emotions... That doesn't mean that it will be the same with you.. There are couples who are happy together all their lives... I think it's different in marriage, new things happen, after a while people they have children, so they build a life around them together, they fight against problems and everyday things... They invest in their family,thus they strengthen their relationship...

BlueVeins · 22-25

Part of the allure of romance is learning about the other person. As you've known them for longer, you learn less per day.

pride49 · 31-35, M

Love is a compulsion to breed with a new partner. So yeah

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@pride49 How exactly does that work with homosexual people though? 🤔

iamelijah · 26-30, M

@CrazyMusicLover Just instict to mate, maybe.

CommandLine · 56-60, M

Sex is not everything in a relationship. Love is an emotion, sometimes it just dies.

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