@solitaire thank him for ghosting you... Here's this one for you ☺️
I can understand how you are feeling and yes it's horrible... having to build again from scratch and having no energy to do it... but at least you know that now you are on the right path of truly taking care of yourself...
@elafina The lack of closure is torture. Even if he'd sent me a one liner - I can't do this anymore, I'd have appreciated it as much as it would have hurt. My last message to him was asking him to call me and his response was "k". I became like a little silly child - I literally did. Thanks for your kind words 😘
@solitaire I understand...😒 No closure leaves you with extra work to do .. but trust in that, it's a much more valuable work to do.. than trying to compromise yourself in order to be with that person. Wishing you strength ❤️
@elafina You know one of the things he suggested. After a point you might probably want to leave your job and move. I'd have been COMPLETELY at his mercy after that. I think I dodged a bullet here. Then next in line was he'd come and live in India for 6 months to check whether he could adapt to life here. Lie after lie after lie after lie and I was so enthralled. I want my post to serve as a WARNING because I met this TOXIC person on EP. He seemed so genuine at the time
@solitaire Losing your independence to someone who betrays your trust..Thank god or the universe that you didn't get more involved and find yourself trapped.. And, i am taking the message...
