I Need Someone to Cuddle With

i would love to have someone to cuddle with, but im a loner and i struggle with letting people get close to me!! i hope to one day do this with someone. i don't think anyone would understand how much of an impact this would have on my life if i were able to do this, even just once, it would be a huge step forward for me!!

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cowshed123 · 41-45, M

you see, this is actually the problem, cos i have actually had situations like this before, but it just feels so uncomfortable for me cos of my anxiety, and when i think about it possibly developing into a relationship, it puts me off and that's when i push people away!! i mean, i understand what your saying, and i need to push myself, and i do just that, believe me, i never even used to set foot over my front door on my days off from work, and now i go out a lot more and so on, but whenever i try to talk to women, my natural instinct is just to pull away!!