How did you find yourself after going through heartache and a break up? What is the meaning of being too insecure?

I've come to learn that life is a revolving door, just as people walked into mine. They can walk back out. So after a breakup i just tell myself that if it were meant to, then it will be. If it doesn't work then he's not what God intended for me to have.

The meaning of insecure is feeling like you're not good enough. And always wondering what other people's opinions are of you, when yours is actually the only one that matters.