When you’re trying to get over someone you were deeply involved with and the relationship abruptly ended…..

What things do YOU do in order to move on?
Knowing and realizing you’ll never hear from them again (at least not in that context or realm); do you pretend they never existed? That it all was a farce? Do you find ways to hate them in order to move on easier?
Just curious what mind set methods, compartmentalizing you have done that helped you move on…
And the gut and heart wrenching fade?

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LavidaRaq · F

It’s difficult, if you actually love someone you can’t just let them go. For me it was clear that he didn’t love me. Care a little maybe. But I had to stop. I had to remove myself from anything and anywhere he was. I hid and went on a healing. It took awhile. I still and may always care for him but I’m good. Plus looking back, what a long time I wasted loving and longing. It’s a brighter day now. Every day 🙂 Give yourself time. They call it a broken heart because it really is one.

Kiesel · 56-60, M

@LavidaRaq yes it most certainly is… shattered and gutted

LavidaRaq · F

@Kiesel I totally understand that. Physically painful at times. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that too. Be good to yourself. Rest a lot, keep your mind busy. It will get easier.