I feel insecure.

Hi everyone.
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and almost 11 months ago, he left me without saying anything. After that, I had so many problems. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, and I was desperate. Until recently, another guy with the same name as my ex asked me out. Well, I accepted but he left me too! I am not ugly, I have a job, I live in a good neighborhood, I am a PhD candidate at a very prestigious university. Why is this keep happening to me? I feel devastated and lonely. It is literally killing me.

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gregloa · 61-69, M

You can’t replace him with someone else. You’ve got to get over him. He didn’t want you so he’s certainly not worth it. Someone else will sense you trying to replace him and it’ll seem you love him more than them. So they will go away also. Let it go completely and love yourself first. Then when you’re ready find someone else. Don’t ever mention him though. Big turn off and they won’t feel sorry for you. Start all over. Leaving the past behind. They need to know you love them for who they are not who you used to love