I feel insecure.

Hi everyone.
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and almost 11 months ago, he left me without saying anything. After that, I had so many problems. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, and I was desperate. Until recently, another guy with the same name as my ex asked me out. Well, I accepted but he left me too! I am not ugly, I have a job, I live in a good neighborhood, I am a PhD candidate at a very prestigious university. Why is this keep happening to me? I feel devastated and lonely. It is literally killing me.

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Alyosha · 31-35, M

You've been with the wrong types. I don't know what it is you're looking for in a partner, but you've made a couple bad choices. That shouldn't spell the end for you. You just might want to take a look at what you're picking for and what those things really signal. Either that or it's pure bad luck, but either way, you shouldn't let it stop you from finding happiness.