I feel insecure.

Hi everyone.
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and almost 11 months ago, he left me without saying anything. After that, I had so many problems. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, and I was desperate. Until recently, another guy with the same name as my ex asked me out. Well, I accepted but he left me too! I am not ugly, I have a job, I live in a good neighborhood, I am a PhD candidate at a very prestigious university. Why is this keep happening to me? I feel devastated and lonely. It is literally killing me.

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eMortal · M

Your mind is playing tricks on you. You need to go to love rehab.

Sherryblue27 · 26-30, F

@eMortal How does that work?!

eMortal · M

@Sherryblue27 you quarantine yourself from anything related to him. Maybe 1month. The idea is to stop thinking about your ex.

Sherryblue27 · 26-30, F

@eMortal I did it, more than a month! But it doesn’t go away. Just hurting me once in a while especially when I think I’ve moved on

eMortal · M

@Sherryblue27 That's normal. Just keep doing it.
As for the recent break up, don't worry about it. He was probably insecure. About yourself though, one thing I've seen is that as a man I don't care about the type of car a woman drives, whether she bought a house or has a PhD. I care a woman's attitude towards me, her physically attributes, sex. The emotional connection comes later. 😉

Sherryblue27 · 26-30, F

@eMortal you’re right. I keep trying. Thanks for your advice