I tried dating two people and i couldn't do it I still want him I didn't compare him to them I just couldn't stop thinking about him so I stopped

There's an old saying for men. If you have two women you will have none.

I've done this once. Really not rewarding I'd say 🤭

Thought about exes are always going to come back, you just have to make sure they don't get in the way of what you're doing. In this case, it did so you were right to end those relationships. It's going to take a while, so give yourself time.