I'm still not over my ex. I cried again. Even though it's been six or seven months I feel like...

Purplepages · 41-45, F

It takes an awful long time to forget .The more you will consciously try to forget the more you’d be reminded of him.Better to accept the truth and go through it ,cry your heart out and heal through your pain .

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

It's hard work. There is no problem - you loved and when we lose someone we love it is a death of a kind and don't be too hard on yourself. Grieve as long as you need. I'm 4 moths down the track of a breakup and my heart is still bleeding. The only thing that is going to heal us is time.

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

There's no timeframe, no guidelines nor law to say when you'll "move on" You'll adapt and you'll stop thinking of him so often and it won't be conscious.

But you'll be able to live your life.

DarkHeaven ·

Grief doesn’t have an exact time frame. And past or not… if you’re feeling it, it’s in the present. Give yourself permission to be sad. Accept it. And try to let it go. ☮️

ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F

Awww girl, I feel you.
It’s so very very hard.
I’m going through the same…💔

I hope you feel at peace and happy soon

sunriselover · M

Some people can get over a person in a day. But that tells you a lot about that person.

Others taken two years. Far too long. Your partner moves on, so must you.

Grief is not confined to time.

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

One of my friends messaged him he answered them and told them to tell me. "I’m just not good enough for her, tell her that. I’m homeless & a nobody."

He still thinks I don't deserve him

ExperienceDLT · M

I know its hard but you have to move on dont dwell on your ex cause i guarantee he moves on without any issue so dont let feelings keep you from doing the same

bijouxbroussard · F

One grieves even the ending of relationships. And at one’s own pace and own way. You will heal from this, it might take distracting yourself with other activities and more time spent with loved ones.