My heart isnt broken , it feels more like stepped on

Stepped on and ground into the dirt. He cheated multiple times and i had no idea about them. No clue. Not too long ago I was freaking out about messages he had going on with a female about hooking up with her. I made friends with her. He tricked her by acting like he was divorced. He wont have to trick them anymore. Now he'll be telling the truth. I wonder what it will feel like for him having short 2 hour screws in motels and apartments and then coming home to nothing. No attractive smart wife at home that loves him, no child at home unless its his parenting time? 15 years of sharing your life with another traded in for what? I wonder how good the dating scene is when you are low income and 53 years old? Being low income isnt fun but at least we had each other, our family, our pets, our future. I dont want to leave but i cant live like this either.

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HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M

I'm sorry this happened to you. But, good for you for not putting up with it. 15 years, a child and pets. He has broken your what should be happy home. Take your house and make him pay child support and alimony if possible. Have your lawyers go after him hard and heavy.

morrgin · F

@HappyCamper74 him and his side family talk about the *itch wives his dad had and how they took everything when they left. Now i know why. Its like some sort of toxic family false belief system they have. His dad cheated all the time and the rest of the family always ignored it and blamed the wife

HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M

@morrgin I don't mean to come across as if I fully understand your situation. Had y'all just grown apart and fell out of love and one of you asked for a divorce, I would never say to go after him financially. But, a longtime cheater deserves to pay until it hurts for what they have done imo.

morrgin · F

@HappyCamper74 i dont think its possible to teach anyone else a lesson. Seems like it eventually comes to them after a period of time like when they finally notice things arent going the way they planned and they have no one else around to blame but themselves

HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M

@morrgin you're probably right. Just look after yourself. Hire yourself the best lawyer possible. Someone who is going to have your best interest in mind.

If you ever need someone to talk to orca shoulder to cry on, you can always message me.

Best wishes