I don’t get why it’s so hard

The love I want seems so hard to find. I know it seems cliche to say but people don’t value anything real anymore. Nobody values talking to each other as we used to. Working things out. Actually enjoying one’s company.
All I want is someone who makes me not feel alone. And makes me forget about how bad the world is. I just want someone who I can cuddle with and can’t keep their hands off me. Someone I can share my day with and not be chastised for wrongs. Just listened to. Someone who’s actually appreciates me and helps me out. I always give to those I’m with. But it always turns one sided every single time.
How hard is it to find someone who will love me the same I want to love them?