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No. My father once told my mother that he hated me, (used the term, "that woman"), while we were all in the car together. I think I had been imitating a television show character, and I had just said, in a very bored voice, "Are we THERE yet???" I meant it to be funny...but my father had no sense of humor.
Toward the exes, I DEMONSTRATED my feelings once to the second ex...(my son's father)...and threw a glass of iced tea all over him including the ice cubes...when he came to raid my jewelry box to get my wedding rings and my nice clothing so that he could give it all to his slut girlfriend. That was BEFORE he Jimmied open the back door with a crowbar and stole the refrigerator and the dishwasher so that he could give them to his girlfriend's mother. I had to go to court before he would give them back.
I never once said that to the third ex, even on the day I told him I wanted a divorce. I still loved him. But he WAS making my life extremely miserable with his rage issues and his mental illness...and I didn't want the last years of my life spent in misery...and I DID say that to him.
Toward the exes, I DEMONSTRATED my feelings once to the second ex...(my son's father)...and threw a glass of iced tea all over him including the ice cubes...when he came to raid my jewelry box to get my wedding rings and my nice clothing so that he could give it all to his slut girlfriend. That was BEFORE he Jimmied open the back door with a crowbar and stole the refrigerator and the dishwasher so that he could give them to his girlfriend's mother. I had to go to court before he would give them back.
I never once said that to the third ex, even on the day I told him I wanted a divorce. I still loved him. But he WAS making my life extremely miserable with his rage issues and his mental illness...and I didn't want the last years of my life spent in misery...and I DID say that to him.
