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are you afraid to be hated?

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yes I'm afraid
there are people , I'm cautious of their feelings, they shouldn't get hurt and at the end if to protect them n their happiness I've to make them hate me , I'll do it without any regret, ttttt
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Carissimi · F
It is potentially dangerous to be hated by someone, or some group, so even if not afraid, it would be wise to be aware and alert to any possible harm that may come, especially in today’s crazy, hate filled, clown world.
Raaii · 22-25, F
@Carissimi yes ma'am totally
People are even ready to kill innocents these days just due to their stupid hate
Also none is completely innocent
But some just do extreme things because of hate 😔
SW-User
@Carissimi Avoid conflict if you can
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Not in any way afraid.

The few things that I am afraid of, I actually seek out. Meaning, I attempt to overcome that fear.

Example: at five years old I was afraid to swim. So I went to the deepest part of the pool and swam underwater all the way to the shallow end.
Raaii · 22-25, F
@DeWayfarer you're a tough achiever sir
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Raaii we learn best by actually doing. This is pretty much in everything.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
I've been hated by some but mostly picked on from my childhood and teenager. Result from depression to f my life through Partying and drugs.


Not worse I was anymore but the aftermath just won't go away.
Raaii · 22-25, F
@FreestyleArt bro
Just one thing
Don't feel down when others hate you
And harm yourself like that
I mean it hurts like anything when you're small and people who you love with all your heart
And expect to love you back
They don't even care about you
It's a cruel world bro
When none is good to you atleast you should be good to yourself
You'll be good
Take care 🙇‍♀️
I’m sort of used to it. I’ve experienced prejudice as far back as I can remember. People are capable of hating based on the most trivial of things. I don’t seek it, but I don’t worry too much, either. I try to treat others fairly and hope for the best.
@bijouxbroussard I'm so, so sorry that that is this world we live in.
I've read travelogues by Black Americans travelling in Africa and feeling overwhelmed to be in countries where blackness is the norm and people are just people. It puts their own experience of America in a different perspective.
I see you, here, treating others not just fairly but with respect, kindness and compassion.
You're one of the most beautiful people here.
@hartfire Thank you. This is very kind. 🤗
@bijouxbroussard Just plain facts. :)
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes, I’m afraid of being hated so I do change how I act around people so that I fit in more. There is however a line that I can’t or won’t cross, the edge of my personality I suppose, so some people do or have hated me.
SW-User
No. I think most dislike me here for my conservative views on particular topics and do be it.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Yes, when I have found people I like in a group I am afraid at first.
SW-User
Not afraid, just a modicum of carefulness.
SW-User
I'm used to being hated by now. I was always uncomfortable with it before and would spend a lot of time wondering why someone hated me. Now, it's whatever.
Torsten · 36-40, M
not in the slightest
SW-User
I'm used to being disliked for one reason or another and yes even hated ...meh ..let others waste their energy on that
cerealguy · 26-30, M
Lostpoet · M
I don't like to be hated, but I'm used to it.
DerSilberneKonig1 · 22-25, M
Nope don't give af, won't go out of my way to make people hate me, but if they hate me for a single action or sentence i said, regardless of how long ago or recent it was, it's not my problem. They can hate me from afar or keep their mouth shut cause i'm beyond done with the drama lol
Raaii · 22-25, F
@DerSilberneKonig1 exctly it's okay if they keep it all to themselves 🙇‍♀️☘️
SW-User
Nah, I’m already hated by quite a few
I'm pretty sure I have embraced it.
Here?...nah, in real life ? - well that depends what people do with their hate .
If it's just silent seething and avoidance ....then that's not a problem, but if it's expressed in sabotage and trying to make me hurt, then ...maybe a little .

Maybe not afraid per se, but it makes you wary and alert ....and that's no way to have to deal with people everyday 🫤
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Haters gonna hate. You're not going to be friends with everyone. Focus on being yourself and people will like you.
Raaii · 22-25, F
@uncalled4 but
I don't need anyone to like me
It'll be okay as long as they don't interrupt with m life
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Raaii That's a good way of looking at it
SW-User
Generally, no. I’m not foolish enough to be public enemy #1. I realized that some people are going to hate you no matter what you do or you don’t do. There are people who hate you and don’t even know you, just because of what you look like.

If I’m doing what I need to do and they hate me, it’s on them. Those haters can kiss my ass.
No. I tell it how it is, if people can't handle it, that's their problem, not mine.

 
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