I'm not going to love me because I don't know

you can't make people love you but you can be kind to them and intelligent people appreciate that

If you find out, let me know

There’s no “making” and no guarantee.

Having said that, if chemistry is there, treat them like a queen.. or at least genuinely very well. They will have a hard time resisting … but I’m speaking of men and women and it’s just my opinion.